Be Confident

So you broke up with your boyfriend and your feelings are hurt? So you gave more than you got? So you loved unconditionally and got conditions thrown at you left and right? Well I'm here to tell you, sometimes the best relationships are the ones you break up from. Any relationship where you felt less than, where you couldn't be yourself no matter how much you tried, where you changed to fit his idea of what a woman should be, and any relationship where you're peace was broken from day one simply IS NOT WORTH IT!

That saying, "time heals all wounds" is true, but trust me from experience sometimes that time seems more like a lifetime of pain than a moment of pain. So pick up the pieces, dust yourself off, get your "happy" back, because another one will come and this time your unconditional may match his.

But do yourself a favor in the meantime, spend some time alone and get to know yourself, you may be surprised how strong you are, how brave you are, how smart you are, and that "being too nice" may come in your favor one day :). Sometimes we hop in and out of relationship's to run away from the hurt when the only one we're really hurting is ourselves. So stop walking around with open wounds expecting another man to administer surgery on those gashes, instead, do your own mending and healing, and STOP thinking about ALL the time you gave to that man that didn't deserve a second. 

Be Confident in who you are, whose you are, and what you want!

Below is a poem from someone I follow on instagram Just Mike...his words have hit home to me in MANY ways, and if you don't have one of his books (Just Words 1&2) then you're really missing out!! Let this resonate with you today...

xoxo ~Nell

Todays post is for that one that's hurting inside and doesn't know if the sun will ever rise again. Just know you're not the only one...these words are as much for myself as they are for you. So sit back, grow in loving yourself again, your time will come.

Are you dealing with a recent breakup or one that you just can't seem to get over?